Wednesday, October 3, 2007

C'est La Vie

The past few years have been overwhelming. People coming in and out.. moving in or away. Its funny how life surprise us everyday with things. I have been going to a funeral services and baby-showers/receptions on the same day. Celebrating a new life and mourning all in one day.

On October 1st, right after work, I went along with my sister to visit a dear family member in Makki Juma Hospital (specialized in cancer cases and treatments). She had a brain tumor that was in an advanced stage. She was in a coma, two nurses at her bedside, and her maid. As we walked in, the nurse said: "momma is not good today!" We sat next to her bed as she laid down so alive, yet so dead. We could hear her breathing quiet heavily. Her chest and head were moving with every breath she takes.. That’s how heavy it was.. after around 30 minutes, she started making some gurgling noises and started to cough while breathing. The nurse switched on her oxygen monitor and told us its dropping along with her blood pressure.

We stayed there for about an hour and then decided to head back home. As you all know it’s the holy month of Ramadan, and we were fasting. Dinner was to be set soon.. We kissed her goodbye and left.

At 7:00ish pm we received "THE" phone call. She passed away. God rests her soul.

17 comments:

  1. God rest Her Soul- All yer7amha Im So Sorry for Your Loss.

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  2. 3atham allaj akerkum, allah yer7amha

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  3. Allah yer7amha. 3atham Allah ajerech.It is said that passing away during the Holy month is a good sign. It doesn't ease the pain but at least a small reassurance that she is in a better place now.

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  4. 3atham Allah ajerkom. My friend's brother passed away yesterday Allah yer7oma, he also used to be my manager :( I hope you're doing okay. If you need anything I'm a phone call away!

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  5. Rashisha-
    Thanks :-*

    Enigma & Zahra-
    Ajerna wajrekom :-)
    Yes, Zahra.. specially that she passed in awal laylat 10 el awakhir min Ramadan. Alla yer7amha she was sick and I hope she is in a better place now

    Toomz-
    Ajerna wajrech :-*
    Yeah I know who you are talking about. Alla yer7amhom all. Thank you so much :-**

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  6. oh sweetie, allah yer7amha o 3atham allah ejerkom... enna lellah wa enna elih raje3oon

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  7. God rest her soul in his heaven. Please accept my condolences.

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  8. 3a'6am Allah ajerkom o Allah yer7amha... Bas Mshallah 9ij Mshallah its ramadhan and 10 el awakher .. el7amdelah erta7at now

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  9. 3a'6am allah ajrech sweetie ;**

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  10. chikapappi-
    Ajerna wajrech 7abooba

    Bashar-
    Amen... Thanks

    Yara-
    Yeah alla yer7amha inshalla shes in a better place

    Shoosha-
    Ajerna wajrech :-**

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  11. allah yr7amha oo 3atham allah ajerkom inshallah .

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  12. I am so sorry to hear that..Allah yer7ama...Last year a very dear women to me passed away too with cancer found in the last stage and they couldn't do any thing. After she was diagnosed with cancer she passed away with 2 weeks...That was so shocking..but I guess this is life on which we don't have our control!

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  13. My deepest condolences ... May God rest her in peace ...

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  14. إنا للــه وإنا إليه راجعون..
    الله يرحمها ويغمد روحها الجنه..

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  15. Amu-
    Yeah thats true, God rest their souls

    Grey-
    Thanks

    Dreamy-
    Amen

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  16. God rest her soul...Allah yar7ama

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